The Power of Self…
I haven’t written anything in a little while, but today I felt the need to write about what I believe to be true power in our own lives. I’ve come across many people that say to me “I don’t care what decisions other people make as long as it doesn’t effect me personally” and I have to be honest I understand the sentiment behind that statement, but the ramifications of our decisions sometimes aren’t seen on the surface. I am a big believer in self governance as well as individual liberty. However, it’s undeniable that with those God-given rights comes responsibility to ourselves, our families, and our local communities or else we quickly surrender those rights to someone whom doesn’t have our best interests at heart.
The truth is those decisions we make do effect other people. Maybe we don’t see it ourselves, but the facts are there that it happens. Also it really should just be common sense. I used to be a stock clerk at Publix. Not a bad job for a 19 year old. The pay wasn’t very good, but I liked the people and it taught me a little about responsibility. It’s at this job, though that I really learned to have a liberal mentality. I always felt like I was underpaid or owed something. I actually complained to my manager that I couldn’t afford an apartment even if I had a roommate(as if this was his problem). Basically with this mindset I went from being a very hard worker to very lazy and a whiner at work. It effected my relationships with my co-workers as well as effected my communication with my managers. In turn this effected the staff view of me which also effected my mood negatively. I took this mood home with me and had an attitude problem with my friends and family alike. It then effected my habits at home negatively.
This was the result of feeling “owed” certain things from the company. The minute I felt owed something and wasn’t getting it I put the control over my life in the hands of people that don’t have my best interests at heart(and I’m not saying they should because it wasn’t their responsibility). Many continue on in life with these same types of habits and wonder why they don’t get anywhere. So when they aren’t getting anywhere the government seems to feed this entitlement mentality with empty promises. Some of these promises that are actually upheld that feed this entitlement mentality only vindicates in their minds a broken philosophy of life. We aren’t owed anything. Now the decisions they made to let their surroundings control them have now been taken hold by the government. The government is a monster out of control stripping away the responsibilities of a free people that is mutually inclusive with the rights given to us by God.
These awful decisions being made by Americans today have now effected their neighbors whether they see it or not. How does the government pay for these new responsibilities? Well the first obvious answer is through higher taxation and a more complicated, progressive tax code. This not only costs another business or person more money in taxes, but also more money to comply with the tax code in general. This is less money in the pockets of families or business’. This means less ability for these people to feed and house their own families. You’re bad decisions are indirectly hurting your neighbor’s chances of the American dream. Another way this hurts families and business in America is through regulation and mandates. The government has now taken upon themselves the responsibilities of the individual. Ironically enough an individual they only see as a drop in the bucket of the masses. When they take upon these responsibilities it’s based on their own rules. These new rules always even if they help you will hurt someone else. These new rules by definition always limit the chances and freedoms of others that had nothing to do with your situation.
We always have control over what we do even when we feel differently. This where true power and liberty comes from. As I said earlier we can only control that which is within our own power. We can control how we act and what we do to correct the situations in our lives that we wish were different. When we can look within ourselves and realize where we are going wrong and where we can correct our behavior then we recognize the abilities we have to effect change in our own lives. Once we start to realize that the true power we hold is evident in our own abilities as well as recognition of our own faults then not only our lives will improve because of the choice we’ve just made to do for ourselves that which is within our power instead of handing it over to an entity that doesn’t see us as individuals, but the lives of millions of other Americans will improve as well because the decision you made to better yourself and your situation will put less of a burden on your neighbor.
I believe when a person understands their own mistakes and faults that for the most part the majority of people will better control their approach to life. I believe there is an absolute irony in the fact that people whom succeed to great levels in the free market are called greedy and yet the people that empower government to take away from those that achieve for their own purposes are considered victims. To want and demand what others have acquired for themselves is greed no matter how you slice it. Success and achievement comes not from being perfect, but from recognizing that we have flaws and need to grow and learn as individuals. When we recognize that we might be the cause of our problems and then make the definitive decision to correct ourselves rather than try to control our surroundings I believe we begin to lose that feeling of helplessness because it becomes within our power to change the situation.
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